my friends love

To me... Love can be purpose. We often live to love. Be it a love for creating, for recognition, for material things, for your family or friends... its the things and the people that make the infinite amount of horrible shit this life throws at you endurable. Its fulfillment. Thats why to find what we consider "true love" in another person is something most are willing to die for. Its the ultimate, its an undeniable reason to persevere. I've not yet found that in another person, so many times I think I may have, but I have hope that one day I will. I dont believe the universe or "God" or fate is going to bring those things to me, but I think if you're open to it and always searching you'll find them, and if you're closed off and defeated you're likely to remain that way.. but tour life should not be in a nutshell... Love is hard and  even the facing it being in love is incredible. I imagine the real thing to be unparalleled, and thats worth putting up with all the BS that precedes it  in your life be you and not any one hurt you for who you are and how to act on it